Your Perspective is the Problem

Do you sometimes feel like the universe is against you? Like there’s always something that bothers you, something that is not quite perfect, something that you need to improve or leave behind? Many people share that feeling. A common reaction is the attempt to escape it: Getting a new job (because the old one apparently sucked), befriending new people (because the relationships you already have...

Finding Happiness

When I was 14 I fell into a deep depression. The external cause was that I’d fallen in love with somebody I couldn’t be with. Being a young teenager I didn’t know who I was or where I belonged in life. However, when I fell in love I felt like I had finally found some purpose in my life: Love. As I was not able to be with the man of my dreams, this became a dilemma: I’d found the purpose...

Is Your Desire For Security an Excuse?

One of the most common for choosing a career or lifestyle you don’t love is that it seems a more secure path. For example, many people will tell you that they can’t leave their job, switch careers or start a business because those paths are not secure. They will tell you that security is very important to them so that’s why they chose a traditional way of living (go to school, have a job,...

30 Day Trial: Feeling Good, Feeling Better – Review

Last January I started a 30 trial where the goal was to focus on feeling good/better. This wasn’t my first experiment along these lines and once again I got very interesting results… Do I feel better? Yes, definitely. I feel better than I felt in the beginning of the year (not that I felt “bad” back then). Now I would just love to tell you that I did nothing but concentrate on feeling...

30 Day Trial: Feeling Good, Feeling Better

„Nothing is more important than that you feel good.“ Abraham-Hicks A few days ago I started another 30 day trial. For at least 30 days I want to make it a priority for me to feel good. And if I can’t feel “good” at some point I want to at least concentrate on feeling “better”. Background: I’m usually a very happy person. However, lately I’ve found myself often “too busy” to...